Start by eliminating negative thoughts. Absolutes like never and always are self-limiting. When you think lack and limitation, that's what you manifest in your life.
Be a purple cow! Be a man magnet! Attract the type man you want. Accentuate your good qualities. Be your authentic self.
You could study under a guru for years, or you can start loving your beautiful self now. Basically, that's it. Love yourself.